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Anxiety and Anxiety Disorders

You can only defeat anxiety by facing it. Anxiety is a state in which you believe it could kill you. If you do not face the anxiety, it spreads proportionally in space and time.

First and foremost, anxiety is a natural protective mechanism of every living being. Without anxiety, we could not survive. Nevertheless, in humans it is a state that results from a mixture of feelings that can no longer be classified.

  • The knowledge of not knowing and its consequences
  • An inability to calculate the situation (since humans think linearly)
  • Psychological disorientation

The symptoms can be varied and do not occur in everyone:

  • Racing heart
  • Heart palpitations
  • Eyelid fluttering when lying down
  • Dizziness
  • Chills
  • Trembling
  • Sweating
  • The feeling of losing the ground under one’s feet
  • Shortness of breath
  • Gagging sensations
  • Vomiting
  • Gastrointestinal complaints
  • Menstrual irregularities
  • Lower abdominal pain
  • Chest pain
  • Heart pain
  • Nightmares, sleep disturbances
  • Skin irritations (crawling sensations, skin burning, itching)
  • Concentration and memory difficulties

A borderline personality typically knows only one way of coping with anxiety: running away.

However, if the borderline individual is attacked in a state of aggression, they do not act with the natural protective function of anxiety. Instead, they do everything to destroy the “opponent.” The anxiety grows massively within them. To counteract it, they become increasingly brutal and resort to means that can no longer be justified by anything.

Free-floating (non-object-directed) anxiety is part of borderline personality disorder. Borderline individuals have no or hardly any defense mechanisms, which makes their reactions often completely incomprehensible to partners.

For many borderline individuals, social anxiety also plays an enormous role. Therefore, very many borderline individuals have the additional diagnosis (comorbidity) of an anxiety disorder:

  • F40.9 - Phobic disorder, unspecified
  • F41.x - Other anxiety disorders
  • F45.2 - Hypochondriacal disorder
  • Persistent anxiety not restricted to specific situations
  • “Free-floating” anxiety
  • Constant apprehensions and worries
  • Physical tension
  • Recurring severe anxiety attacks (panic attacks)
  • Not restricted to specific situations
  • Sudden onset
  • Racing heart, chest pain, feelings of suffocation, dizziness
  • Fear of dying, going crazy, or losing control
  • Fear of public places
  • Fear of crowds
  • Fear of traveling alone
  • Fear of leaving the house
  • Fear of being scrutinized by others
  • Avoidance of social situations
  • Fear of criticism or rejection
  • Often associated with low self-esteem
  • Fear restricted to specific situations or objects
  • Examples: fear of heights, flying, spiders, blood phobia
  • Excessive preoccupation with the fear of having a serious illness
  • Misinterpretation of physical symptoms
  • Persistent worries despite medical reassurance
Normal AnxietyAnxiety Disorder
Appropriate reaction to real dangerExcessive reaction without real danger
Temporally limitedPersistent or recurring
Does not substantially impair lifeLeads to significant limitations
Can be controlledFeeling of loss of control
Helps with survivalImpairs quality of life
  1. Triggering situation - external or internal stimuli
  2. Physical symptoms - racing heart, sweating, trembling
  3. Perception - “Something is wrong with me”
  4. Catastrophizing thoughts - “I’m dying, going crazy”
  5. Intensification of anxiety - panic increases
  6. Avoidance behavior - situation is avoided in the future
  7. Short-term relief - but long-term worsening
  • Cognitive behavioral therapy - Identification and modification of anxiety-triggering thoughts
  • Exposure therapy - Gradual confrontation with anxiety-triggering situations
  • Relaxation techniques - Progressive muscle relaxation, breathing exercises
  • Antidepressants (SSRIs, SNRIs)
  • If needed, short-term benzodiazepines (with caution due to dependence potential)
  • Regular exercise
  • Avoiding caffeine and alcohol
  • Sufficient sleep
  • Learning relaxation techniques
  • Self-help groups